It was one of those situations. I have a HUGE family, so if I invited one person I had to invite EVERYONE (and i mean HUGE extended family) so I was "damned if I did" and apparently "I am damned coz I didn't".
I did not want the interference (my family is VERY controlling) and I wanted it to be simple (which would not have been teh case if the whole family was involved) and now I can't wait until tomorrow is over so that I can just get everything over with (I know that it is sad, because it should be a happy thing..... but my family is making it not so much)
My grandmother was upset because other people knew before she did (and we still have no idea what she is talking about because my mother called her after the fricken ceremony)
So do you all think I should send the thank you card to her even though she obviously was trying to be nasty (and obviously nasty at that) about the whole ordeal or do you guys think I should drop it, not send her anything, and move on to better people |