Let's begin:
Yes, I'm talking about a two legged child, not a four legged child.
Yes, I will be having a baby shower-a girlfriend of mine has already started me a registry at Babies R Us on-line.
And any pseudo grandma are welcome! She's going to have a lot of people around her that are going to love her and help us out as needed. I won't let pride get in the way as much as possible. I'm a realistic individual and know that the rode I chose to go (keeping her vs. adopting her out) may not have be the "easiest", but I think I need to try.
Thanks for the tips!! Anything further, keep 'em coming-I'm all ears!