John just called me and before I could even say anything he told me he isnt leaving the hospital....that he needs to stay for himself..which is good..I just listened to him mostly, he said he only wants 1 phone call a day from her and short and meaningful, not arguing or it wont do him any good being there...he will call her once a day....not her calling him all the time making drama, he talked to the therapist last night about all of it and he sounds alot better today. hopefully things will calm down now a little.
he is at a V.A. hospital fot ptsd but they are also working on the drug problem.
thank you all again, it meant alot to have replies from caring friends