GORJESS-
 
lol, I'm sorry, I KNEW your avitar looked familiar! ha ha 
WOW, you're only 17...ish, and you've been diagnosed w/ lupus? Holy Cow mama. I didn't know that...not that it really matters regarding your situation. Mine still sucks, by the way.
So, the dad's behaving now? 

   I'm glad you told your folks and I wish you the best in everything that you choose to do! 
Keep in touch!