I hope it all works out, I have no doubt she will put up a little fight the first few times you say no (by fight I mean a disagreement with you by any kind of method inc shaking and being scared at first) but I think after a few days she would get the idea.
Certainly worth a try, Dogs don't really hold grudges so even if it fails miserably she will get over it
Feel free to PM me or post in thread if you wanna bounce any ideas off me.
Side Note :
My current dog is called Jake and my old cat (RIP) was called Lilly .... You obviously have great taste in names