I can totally understand why your so gentle with her, but have you actually tried being a little firmer with her?
I'm not talking about screaming, shouting, beating or any of the other things but for example ... when she snarls and stuff (at other dogs) you should be saying "no" to that kind of behavior, and making sure it stops. She wont like it at first, but she would get used to it.
I just wonder if your over compensating for the bad things that happened to her previously? and in effect not letting her move on from the bad behavior of her previous owner?
She needs you to teach her what is right and what is wrong. By letting her know that YOUR in control of the situation including her behavior will probably allow her to become a more secure dog.
In regards to the playing, some dogs are active and some are snugglers, I'm sure you guys can work together to get a good balance in time.
I hope I haven't caused any offense with my thoughts. |