I've had them in bed with us @8 wks. We have a 12 wk old in with us and our 3 others. I put a fuzzy blankie between our pillows and sleep with my arm around him. They don't like to potty where they sleep so you might wake up if they begin to cruise around. Most nights he wakes one of us up @ 3 or 4 am to go out. This morning he made it until 6:30. They can hold it but they don't have much control. When it's ready to come out it comes out. You need to be trained until they can be. Good Luck, You can do it