I've done it both ways. First daughter (12 years ago), I got the epidural real early in the labor stages. I was so relaxed and comfortable and even napped off and on. Yes, they had to tell me when to push because that sensation is taken away with the epidural (in most women's cases - depending on how strong they have it on) but I only pushed three times to deliver her. With my second daughter (10 years ago), we got to the hospital too late to get the epidural and let me tell you, I will NEVER forget that pain. Not only the contractions, but the actual crowning and delivery.... WOW! The only thing that saved me was that time it was only two pushes to get her out. I know everyone has to choose for themselves but..... I ALWAYS recommend the epidural to my friends. And in the big scheme of things, that needle pain was worth the couple seconds it lasted!
Another thing though.... I really went back and forth on trying to decide the first time but after I finally "gave myself permission to NOT try to be superwoman" (LOL) and signed the consent form, I felt so much better. Signing the consent form during your pregnancy doesn't mean you are bound to your decision.... it just made me feel better that if I wanted it, it would happen. So much of the anxiety about giving birth was washed away for me then.
Good luck with whatever you decide!
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~ Angie |