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Originally Posted by yorkieK9trainer Itspuppyluv-
I really must say THANK YOU and give you a HUGE HUG-
I'm probably the most open minded person you'll ever meet and am not offended easily in the slightest. Don't hesitate to say anything on your mind...as long as it's legal to post on the forums anyway-lol (you can always e-mail me hateful words! If you were ever so inclined to do so!  ). |
E-mail is on its way. Lol J/K
I’m not completely unsympathetic towards the father but I’m a strong believer in taking responsibility for one’s actions, even when the outcome isn’t what you expected or wanted.
I have a nephew that I am very close to that is a young dad. It isn’t what he wanted or what I would have chosen for him at this age but none of that changes the fact that his child is here.
He freaked out when he first learned of the pregnancy but he is a great dad. He pays child support, puts money into an account for her and takes her every Tuesday, Thursday and every other weekend. He agreed to this with the mother, without any lawyers involved. I am proud of him but, really, he isn't doing anything special. Just what he should be doing.
It doesn’t sound promising with the father now but Jodi is right -- babies have an amazing effect on people. If not, it really is his loss.
Huge hugs back to you. I think you are going to be a wonderful mom and you have your family behind you. You will both be just fine.
