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Originally Posted by dragonflysw Well....I am glad that you have put so much thought into this. Seems to me like your heart and your gut are trying to tell you something. As for the state assistance, my sister had to get assistance during and after her pregnancy and my whole family reassured and supported her because as they stated.....'We have worked all of our lives and never been remotely able to qualify for assistance.....look at this as we, your family, are helping you with this baby, not the state!'. And my family is so correct......whether you or someone you knows is on assistance, your taxes are still going toward this program and a lot of people never get to take advantage of this assistance because they don't need it. People like you that do deserve it, should take advantage that it is offered....don't abuse the system, but let the system work for you and help you until you are in a better situation. Let your heart make the decision for you no matter what the decision might me. Good luck and keep us up to date!!! Praying for you!! |
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