Thats a hard one. I know when my ex left, he took Bear, our yorkie, and gave him to his mother! It almost killed me. I loved Bear so much. But he said Bear belonged to him, cause he paid for him.
It took me about 3 years to get over the heartache to get another one. Since then, I even bought another one, so now I have 2.
I don't know how Bear is doing. Times my babies reminded me so much of Bear. He was one unforgettable dog, and my first yorkie.
I don't know what to say to you here. If both of you are attached to the dogs, do what your heart says to do. Its a hard decision. But I think joint custody could work for some. |