I wouldn't need to rely on the father for financial assistance, but I would still need it if I kept her.
The father has an EXCELLENT track record in regards to income and employment. That's hasn't been an issue and I don't see it ever becoming on either! Point is, if I asked him for assitance, I know I'd get it, but I'm having issues w/ asking him to pay for something he wasn't anticipating or wanting all together.
He sites me, and just did it recently: "If I thought you wouldn't have an abortion like we discussed, then you and I never would've gotten together." That's a rule of thumb and a question he asks every girl he is interested in prior to doing anything w/ them. Funny, (not that it should matter) but I only remember this conversation taking place AFTER we had gotten together a few times...because I was on the pill-he was "safe".
Whatever. My stomach hurts again just thinking about his reactions to this whole thing. |