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Originally Posted by POOH & DESTINY I UNDERSTAND THAT BUT THERE IS NO REASON TO BE MEAN OR RUDE. MY MOM ALWAYS TOLD ME THAT AN FIRST IMPRESSION IS THE ONE EVERYONE REMEMBERS. YOU DONT HAVE TO BE RUDE OR MEAN. ITS NOT WHAT YOU SAY HOW YOU SAY IT. I AM NEW TO THE YORKIE WORLD AND I LOVE MY BABIES TO DEAF BUT IM NOT GOING TO ASK SOMEONE THAT WAS JUST RUDE TO ME FIVE MIN. AGO A QUESTION AND OR BECAUSE I'LL BE AFRAID THAT THEY WOULD PUT ME DOWN AGAIN. THATS ALL IM SAYING. |
I cannot imagine how you are thinking anyone is being rude or putting you down here -- maybe it is time for you to re-evaluate how you perceive what people say. A person can look between the lines and find whatever they are looking for -- look for friendly, helpful people and that is probably what you will read -- look for meanness and hate and that might be what you read. In other words, try to look at posts with a positive frame of mind -- it might make all the difference in how you perceive the words. People are trying -- but you are putting them off with this deprecating attitude.
Smile -- it will make you feel a lot better!