You are one year younger than my twins. There is no way that I would encourage them to give the child away. As long as there was a breath left in my body I would encourage them to keep it. It would be different if the mother were a teenager.
As for the father not wanting any part of the child rearing, I believe that can sometimes be a blessing. I was a very selfish mother and my babies were mine. I was not willing to share custody and would have gone without child support if I had to. |