I love this site for the most part, I wouldnt leave because of snooty or trouble maker people, every site or aol list has them lol Its not worth the aggrivation...
but here on YT if i see a thread getting argumentative, i leave it... if i type a post reply i read it, if my reply might hurt someones feelings i delete it before i post it..makes me feel better that i answered it ( even though only to myself lol)
I see alot of new members with 1 or 2 posts reply to a thread as if to start trouble or maybe stick up for a breeder who has been questionable..those are the kind of threads i stay out of once I see it happening.
I replied once to something then later in the thread come to find i should have kept my mouth shut because I didnt know all the facts before i typed...I learned a lesson there.
life is too short and stressful at times to come on here and add to it for anyone.
I talk to a very few members in pm's, I wish it was more, maybe someday I'll get to that point, but I love coming here especially when I'm feeling down, which is alot lately. I read posts, look at all the beautiful furbaby pics. I've learned so much since ijoined. this really is a great place to be a part of.
I try to remember this.....behind this screen is a real person, you dont know their story, are they having a bad day? feeling down? think before you type.
have a great day..Elaine |