 Tell them
Hey, you must find some way to let your parents know...this situation isnt
going to go away; trust me I know...been there done that! I remember wanting to die and didnt know how in the world I would tell my Mom...telling
my Dad...well I just couldnt. None the less I did tell them and after tears and
a few "I told you sos" everything worked out fine. What ever you do dont make a hasty decision; this is a decision that needs to be thought out and thought out and thought out. Your bf is the least of your worries right now,
your health is number one, your babies future, your future...these are the important things right now. What ever your plans were..college, career, etc
you can do anything with a child or if you think it would be best for everyone to not have a child now or possibly adoption...this is your choice. Your parents will have only your best interest at hand so let them have input, but make sure they know what road you want to take (after you weigh all options). I had a daughter in high school, married, divorced within a year
(I advise you dont marry because of a pregnancy) and my daughter and I
grew up together...you will miss out on a few things...and have to sacrifice
for a child but life will go on. I am sorry you are carrying this burden and can
totally relate..good luck and keep your head up...everything happens for a reason. |