I remember telling my parents and they were not happy at all...I stayed with my friend for a few days until they cooled off and wanted to talk. They made sure they married me off to my bf..our marriage lasted 11 LONG years..we both didnt want to be married but did it for the sake of me being pregnant.
You NEED to tell the father..its his choice afterwards if he wants to be a part of the baby's life or not....but he WILL be obligated to pay child support that child no matter what!!! At least here it works that way. You cant lie to him...it will come back to slap you in the face when your child grows up and wants to know who his/her father is...its just not fair not to tell. BUT it is YOUR decision if you want to end the pregnancy, place the baby up for adoption or keep the baby. Finding a job, finishing school and raising a baby are hard but if you are serious about it..it CAN be done!! Don't try to figure it all out in one day...tell your parents and let them help you out...they love you im sure and wont leave you homeless and pregnant.
And like a previous posted stated we arent here to judge you..we are here to support you NO MATTER what you decide!! HUGS!!
Dawn |