I had my 1st daughter at 15, and I would never advise this to any young teenager, but I'm glad I did have her so young, her and I are so close and we have such a strong bond, she comes to me for anything and is very honest with me.
My parents went off the wall when they found out, but as soon as they seen that life growing in me, my mom and I really bonded, and to this day, I feel that my daughter brought my mom and I close. We use to fight like cats and dogs, but now we have such a strong connection. She has and forever will always be here for me.
Having a child at a young age, is not easy, I missed out on so much, but it was so worth it. If you keep a solid head on your shoulders, and do this the right way, you can make it work, it wont be easy, it will be very tough, but it will be so worth it.
Adoption is also a great choice, there are so many couples out there that cant have children of there own, and they could give a child such a wonderful life.
Just think long and hard, your heart will tell you what to do, just listen! |