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Originally Posted by GORJESS this whole situation is just so hard 2 take in. 2day i was on the verge of lying 2 the father 2day and telling him that i got the abortion and just disappearing out of his life. but idk if that's the right thing to do because i guess he has the right to know.
what bothers me is that he's a rapper and his music has been taking him pretty far and his music is about to come out on the radio and i feel like having this kid will probably take his dream away. that's one reason i wanted to tell him i got an abortion. do u think that's wrong? |
Honestly, if I were you, I would talk to your parents, give them a few days to cool off, and then talk to them about how to handle the father situation. I don't think I could give you any good advice on how to handle the father. One one hand, it probably would be more convenient to just have the father out of your life. But on the other hand, do you think it would benefit your child to know who his/her father is? Those are just some things to consider. Whatever you decide to do regarding the father, I know it will be the right choice for you. I think you should talk to your parents first. ((((((((((hugs)))))))))