[Surfie and Tiki]

My opinions, and nothing more.
For over the bed, I would do black. The bed skirt is too shiny for the bedspread, I think it will take away from the elegance of the bedspread; I would do something heavier and less shiny. I would use the lighter pink as my predominant pink and use touches of the brighter pink in pillows and other accessories. Brights are extremely hard to match where lights you can get away with more shades in the color spectrum. Different tones of brights tend to fight each other and you might not end up with the look you were after. Hope that makes sense to you. I would go with light tan walls and if the sitting area is in an alcove or something, you might consider painting that area a light pink. I love the chaise and all the accessories and pillows you picked out. Love the shoes and the whole look of fashion, it flows beautifully with the bedspread. Then again, I have worked in the Fashion Industry for my entire career, so I might be a bit biased. If you have a Burlington Coat store near you, they have some great accessories in the exact look you are going for.

You must be having a blast I love decorating. Doing it with your daughter whom just happens to have great taste is an added bonus.

Have fun………

PS I will admit I did not read the entire thread, so if I am being repetitive, sorry