Christmas proposals are definitely very romantic, but practically speaking, if the ring is given in connection with a holiday, it automatically becomes a "gift". 18 is very young and if things doen't work out and the ring is given as a gift, she is under no obligation to return it. It is given just an an engagement, however, the ring must be returned.
My son has a ring ready and waiting. He isn't sure when he is proposing yet, but he just moved to S. Carolina with his girlfriend!! They are both 23. I gave him the above advice that a wise attorney gave me and his words were "hmmm, very interesting". I know no one wants to think in terms of it not working, but rings certainly aren't cheap, even on a poor man's budget!!
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