Hi Kitty, I'm pretty sure you said you or hubby were in the military. Well, I surely know where you are coming from being in a place where you don't know anyone and feel like you are all alone. You mentioned your pastor, When we were stationed in Japan for 7 years (can't get much further from family than that) We bacame VERY involved in our church. It helps put you in touch with other people and make friends. With a church family behind you you don't feel so alone. Also gives you people to fall back on, when you feel like you just can't do it anymore they will be there for friendship, meals, help with the kids etc...
My other thoughts for you are miltary centered. I havn't used them and don't what branch you are in but they all have family support groups that are there just for this type of reason. Please look them up and go talk to them.
Just out of curiosity, if you are miltary why do you need to wait for insurance to take effect?
I'm sorry if I have read incorrectly about you being military. If I'm way off on that than at least think about getting more involved in your church (when we were in Japan were there every time the doors were open and was made Japan feel like home.)
If you ever want to talk you are more than welcome to PM me. I sure hope you are feeling better soon.
Big hugs to you,
Kim |