What a wonderful story! I just read this whole thread, and have such admiration for you and your family. I understand why you feel guilty, not that you've done anything wrong. I just understand - I like everything above board and spelled out with everybody agreeing, but this is not an easy couple to deal with. In the meantime, Rusty has you guys and a wonderful home. Perhaps at some point, you can send the gf a baby gift or something. She probably feels guilty too. The hubby sounds like someone I would keep away from, but she may at some point be approachable. Maybe after another litle while, you can apprach her and give her a big thank you for letting you take care of Rusty, and how grateful you are. Maybe she'll accept that. I just think they're overwhelmed and feel guilty about abandoning their dog.
I wouldn't let them take him next time. You could say he has an upset stomach and that the babies might catch it, or something.
Keep the updates coming, and bless you both.
Judy |