I can say from personal experience how much support and comfort I received when I lost my Katie. It's truly devestating, you feel helpless and lost. It's especially hard when people around you (even good friends and family) can't understand the extent of your pain because they aren't animal lovers. But it's great to come here and read all the supportive posts and PMs because everyone here REALLY understands, some even cry with you. The loss is deep and heart wrenching and it never goes away. It's like a blow to your stomach and all the air is sucked out of the room at the same time. But being able to share that loss with others makes it a much easier burden to carry. |