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Originally Posted by LuvMySissy This is a really crappy situation and it is a difficult position you are in. But even if you were to say something to your brother and SIL, ultimately your mom will still continue to do what she does. It's an enabling pattern and she is the only one who can put an end to it. Daycare isn't inexpensive, but if they are both making $70K a year, they can certainly afford it!!! The both sound really spoiled and selfish, but they have had help getting this way.
As long as your mom is willing to continue doing this, there is really nothing you can do, except make yourself crazy over a situation you have no control. |
I agree completely I'm 7 years older than my brother and my sister is 11 years older than he is. So we were out of the house while he was still in elementary school and he is a mama's boy at 34 years old. I know as long as she feels they need her to do this she will, no matter what we have to say about it.
Like I said previously the other grandkids are being cheated. My sister just went through a nasty divorce and could have really used my mom for moral support not to mention just being there for my sisters kids.
Sorry I will stop now.