I think you are his housekeeper/accountant.... not his GIRLFRIEND
You have really set yourself up to me his new Mommy. If you don't throw his responsibilities back in his own lap then you will be forever doomed to be a surrogate Mommy.
Like V said....It might seem cute(and even powerful )now to be doing for him but it grows old down the road being MOMMY.
By the way.. Big whip... flowers. I guess that was cheaper for him then a new maid