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Originally Posted by Brookef18 My sister has been through this 3 times and is on her 4th... She has a five year limit... marry me within five years or hit the road... WELL the first 3 times she was in relationships that all seemed to be heading toward marrage. All three guyus said they wanted to get married... but never took the plunge. She broke up with all three after 5 years.... now she is living with # 4 and she is getting older and wants to be married but had decided that they have a good thing and will not rock the boat over getting married.
Some guys are just not into marrage... Maybe your guy is just takin his time and maybe not. I guess you will have to decide what is most important to you! I wouldn't push right now cause he just said I love you...See what happens. In the mean time I wouldn't act married till I was... Make him do his own bills!!!  |
Wow 5 years. If a guy doen't know after 6 months if he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, time to move on. They know, and if they aren't saying anyything, then what they know is that they don't want to spend the rest of their life with you but since nothing better has come along, you'll do until it does.
What they also know is that you do want to get married so it's not like they're afraid to ask because they're afraid of rejection. They aren't asking because they don't plan to spend their life with you, they just plan to keep you until somoen better comes along.
My suggestion, stop acting like his wife. no cooking, no cleaning, no laundry, and no bill payaing. And some time out with the girls.