[vainchick5]

Originally Posted by Tiggerwit

At the risk of getting myself banned or suspended...here goes.

Ally,

I have read a lot of your posts and had some conversations with you and it seems you still don't get it. You come on YT with your boo hoo I'm so poor, my husband's a non supportive ass and you present yourself as this poor pitiful me victim. And then when people offer you support, help, and a handout, you throw it back in their face. How dare you? Most of the members one here are way more knowledgable then you are about your yorkie and they deserve nothing but respect.

You asked for help with Fergie's worms, Feminvster offered to pay for your vet visit and you turned it down. What was the point of coming on here saying how broke you were, asking for help and then refusing the help when it was given? Connie k was right. When you are confronted on something you back track, change your story and then start attacking. You can't do that.

I've been where you are Ally. I had both my girls very young, I had the non supportive husband, so don't even go there with me. You can not come on here complain, ask for handouts and then slap the face of the people who try and help you. Your life situation is a choice you made and continue to make. Only you can change that and only you have the ability to do something about it. No one and I mean no one is going to hand it to you on a silver platter. Grow up and step up. I used to work 2 jobs while my kids were growing up so we could get by. My husband refused, so instead of whining about it I did something about it. Seems like you have a bunch of family, mom, sisters, etc to watch those kids for you so you can work if things are so bad.

It's my opinion that you are in over your head right now and the best thing you could do for Fergie is find her a good home. And maybe someday when things are more stable and you have some money, you could get a yorkie. Heck it took me 15 years before I got mine.

I know this will come across as mean and hurtful, and for that I'm sorry, but you just can not keep doing this.

These people are trying to be supportive. You need to decide to either accept their help when it's given or don't ask for it. Plain and simple.

I wish you the best and I hope you are able to overcome and figure it out. You have a hard road, I know. It's not going to get easier Ally, kids grow up and get more demanding and more expensive. Get a handle on it now. Think twice before you post.