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Originally Posted by luvdorkyyorkies Thank you Jessy. 
I know Im not totally blameless in this. Right before we left I was told their was a DNa problem, that would be cleared up quickly. So I had the oppurtunity to hand back the girls and was told my friend knew about it too.
I have found out the problem existed two months before when I sent a deposit also.
I guess after 2 months of waiting and sending a deposit, saving up for the girls, getting a babysitter, my hubby taking off work, driving 4 1/2 hrs, then waiting an additional 4 hrs even after I confirmed it was ok to come at that time, I didnt want to drive 4 1/2 hrs back empty handed. So I was a complete mush melon head.
After waking up the next day with a sinking feeling. I called my friend and asked them "why didnt you tell me there was problem?" Their reply "I didnt think it was my place to tell you"
I didnt even have contact info on the breeder for petes sake. It was like it was a big secret. When I think back on this, hindsight is 20/20.......boy was I dumb!!! Its like I had big blinders on.
Im not looking for sympathy. I just needed to get this off my chest, and hope to prevent this from happening to someone else. I felt I needed to post about this. I probably should have said something earlier........but I just hate this kind of turmoil and finger pointing.
If the finger was being pointed at me for this kind of thing I would be completely devastated and couldnt sleep at night. |
No Kelly NONE of this is your fault! You had a dream and you thought your mentor was going to help you make it come true. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that!
I will say that I was in the same situation that you were a few years ago. I had purchased a very nice champion sired male for show. I paid for him and brought him home. He was beautiful and I was so excited! After I returned home with him I realized that I did not have his AKC papers and I had been so excited when I arrived to bring him home that I had forgotten about his AKC papers. I called his breeder and she told me at that time she was not 100% sure that the particular male she said was his sire was indeed his sire. That was the beginning of June and it took me until the following end of February to finally receive his papers with the proper sire. Needless to say the male that was suppose to be his sire was NOT!
I pray this works out for you and I am sorry that you have had to endure such heartache. BY the way her daughter is also a breeder in Florida have you tried to contact her about the situation? Just maybe she could help.
Here is the link to her website and I believe her name is Mary Lou.
http://www.jendasyorkies.com/