Thank you Jessy.
I know Im not totally blameless in this. Right before we left I was told their was a DNa problem, that would be cleared up quickly. So I had the oppurtunity to hand back the girls and was told my friend knew about it too.
I have found out the problem existed two months before when I sent a deposit also.
I guess after 2 months of waiting and sending a deposit, saving up for the girls, getting a babysitter, my hubby taking off work, driving 4 1/2 hrs, then waiting an additional 4 hrs even after I confirmed it was ok to come at that time, I didnt want to drive 4 1/2 hrs back empty handed. So I was a complete mush melon head.
After waking up the next day with a sinking feeling. I called my friend and asked them "why didnt you tell me there was problem?" Their reply "I didnt think it was my place to tell you"
I didnt even have contact info on the breeder for petes sake. It was like it was a big secret. When I think back on this, hindsight is 20/20.......boy was I dumb!!! Its like I had big blinders on.
Im not looking for sympathy. I just needed to get this off my chest, and hope to prevent this from happening to someone else. I felt I needed to post about this. I probably should have said something earlier........but I just hate this kind of turmoil and finger pointing.
If the finger was being pointed at me for this kind of thing I would be completely devastated and couldnt sleep at night.