[red98vett]

I'm the same way and force myself to read all the posts if only to support the person who's grieving. But I know what you mean - some of them haunt me for days ....There was a time after bringing box of kleenex to my computer - my husband actually told me to stop reading them .....I had to clarify I don't do it for me - but want to lend someone a shoulder if only for a minute....

but you're so right - I think we all put ourselves in their place ....that kind of loss would change my life too....