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Originally Posted by Lora9584 Thanks you guys for all the kind words. You all always know what to say to make me feel better. He has been disabled for almost three years but is it really getting bad. All of my kind words and support seem to be falling on deaf ears right now. Hopefully once Friday is over things will get a little better. I am gettting pretty stressed right now and have seemed to dealt with everything pretty good until now. And when I get stressed I tend to get snappy. And I know that is not good. Some days he doesn't want to talk to anyone and just spends most of his time in bed. Heck I know he doesn't feel good. You can look at him and tell that. But I just feel like he is giving up. And I always said I would not give up hope untill there was no hope left. He is talking a little more today but not much. Just sets in his chair with Graff or goes to bed. Someone tell me how to get through to him!!! |
Lora I'm Deb and it sounds like you have a little battle fatigue .I to have a lung disease for 2 years now and until recently re clamed my life ya see sometimes when your really ill you loose yourself in all being totally cared for by someone else you may forget that you are a worthwhile person and need to make the most outta any life you have , this is a learning curve that can't be taught but can be shown through example . Take action in your own life to take care of yourself and it will be the most you can do for a ill person A Gift " so to speak ..Good luck And stay strong
