This might help...... her dress is kinda sleek not flffy... and I know she should wear a sleek updo with this kind of dress.... but that's not what she wants so it really is not up eo what i think.

She want a big old full head of fluffs and whorls set up high

I'll probably string some beads or something through it for her.
By the way. Her dress is VERY red and her hair is dark long and straight. She's tall and broad shouldered with a thin build with curves so I think she can pretty much carry off a BIG DO