I didn't know that comforting them was wrong, but that's what I've been doing with Jake because that's just what comes natural to me. I do, however, comfort him for a minute to reassure him and then I try to distract him with a toy or something he likes. That seems to work fine, and he's seeming alot less scared about noises, etc. I think it just took time for him to get used to his new environment with all the different sounds. |