I think first off why is it a problem for him to go to the bar by himself with friends? My fiance' goes out on a rare occassion with friends and it's no big deal. Having said that I would have a HUGE problem with him lying about it. I am not really sure what to say but I will say that if he is lying that isn't good because A.) He feels like he can't tell you or B.) he has something to hide or C.) He is a man and doesn't think that much and to him it's no big deal. I would sit down and talk about the situation and compromise, but let him know that him lying doesn't make you happy. Sorry you are going through this I am sure you two can work it out. Please don't take my post as being harsh.
Last edited by GeorgiesMomma; 09-15-2006 at 07:29 PM.
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