Gosh I'm so ticked off and it's tooooo late to call anyone so I guess I'll gripe her.
So, Adam and I have been living together for almost 3 yrs now. We are not engaged but were happily a couple.
Today, I opened his bank statement (I thought it was from our joint acct) and I saw that he's been going to a bar and not telling me. (I'm sure to some of you this is sending pretty dumb so far but hear me out.) Anyways, he knows (and has KNOWN) that I have an issue w/either of us going to bars/club w/out the other and it's been okay. If he does need/want to go (work function) that's fine but I like to be in the know.
Well, I guess a few times in the past couple months he's been going w/guys AND girls from work (after work). The couple times I noticed he got home later (I usually get home after him) I questioned it, and he said he had a late meeting.
Do I think he's cheating? NO. But he DID lie about going and this PISSES me offf!!! He says I'm overreacting and that everyone "white" lies but to me, this is more then a white lie. He's bringing up (IMO) white lies that I've told like, "Yeah I took Bella" (after she's peed on the floor). I don't think these are the same.
I'm confused, mad, angry and hurt. Am I overreacting?!?!?!
