Omigod, I'm so devastated reading Holly's story through that link. This is not something to take lightly. IF I consider doing it, it will be a last resort, if necessary, after all other options have been exhausted.
And I did find those specialists, in Plainview - thank you. Their expertise will obviously be one resource I draw from to make my decision.
Thank you so much. I need to go hug my babies right now.....