I posted on the garden site and someone told me it looks like a stinkhorn, it's a type of mushroom. So I did a image search on google for stinkhorn and let me tell you, there are some wild looking (pornagraphic) stinkhorns. They look just like penis'es
Google it yourself and see what you think lol I'm not sure if it's the 'elegant stinkhorn" or the "dog stinkhorn" whatever it is I'm glad it's gone LOL