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Originally Posted by Highlans We are all saying prayers but how can god let this happen? to someone who was doing such a wonderfull thing for two people who wanted a baby. |
I don't think we're trying to find blame in this situation. I know it's natural to want to blame someone. We can't blame god or karma for everything that happens in life. Unfortunately we don't receive immunity for the selfless acts of courage we make. Life unfortunately simply isn't fair. We can only live our lives with our beliefs in current happiness or the possibility of being rewarded in the after life.
I think her aunt knew in her heart that she was giving a wonderful gift to this family. I can tell that she loves her children and wanted this other couple to have the opportunity at this love. To give this gift, she has made so many sacrifices. Personally I am pro-life so I really look up to this woman for her decision to have the baby. I feel like she should be rewarded for this. It sounds like she already has gotten the joy out of knowing that she is helping a family who has always wanted a child. I just wish that she could see the couple with the baby.
Remember this... "It rains on the just and the unjust."
This lady did a wonderful thing by giving that baby the chance at life and has in turn affected two more lives of people that she never even knew. No matter what happens all of her children will live on in her legacy that she has lived her life for others and is a very caring person. She has done a very honorable and nobel thing.
I really hope that she pulls through. I honestly hope that no one blames god, the baby, or anyone else for what has happened. It is no one's fault but is one of those things that just happen. What we need to do is support a friend who is going through alot right now and pray for her aunt's recovery. Please don't lose hope Kathryn.