i bought the tide rose & violet detergent and the fabric softner sheets...us girls wash our clothes with it when daddy is offshore and i love the smell-it smells so girly!!! when he's home i use gain with febreeze detergent and the febreeze fabric softner sheets. his clothes be stanky with all the chemicals they use on the rig and i know he would complain if he had to go to work smelling like roses!!!