i checked with my vet and she charges $339 for a spay and its an overnight procedure
the local spay clinic is $20 for the preop and $115 for the procedure
And i asked they use isoflorine for anesthesia)
hmmm i am going to wait to here back from the vet humane society here they assist with the cost of a spay if you want to use your own vet
maybe they will have some good news....
if not i will have to suck it up and do it anyway

she is too important to me not to...
i'll keep you posted