Lately Layla has been standing at the door to go outside.. i get very excited because she is telling me she has to pee... but then she just goes outside and plays for 10 min.. i get fed up seeing that she isn't peeing/pooping and back in we come... 10 min later... she is at the door again... we did this for hours today. i don't want her to think she is running the show by dictating when we go out to play.. but i also don't want her to have accidents in the house. i am so confused and frustrated. i know she has to poop because she hasn't since like 10 this morning... and she has eaten today... so the poop is yet to come.. but when we go outside.. it is play time

please help!