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Old 09-03-2006, 10:12 AM   #14
RoxyJosMom
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I am so sorry you have to deal with a MIL like that on top of trying to take care of YOUR baby and heal your own self. Kristianna (love that name BTW) is YOUR baby. It is ultimately going to be you and your BF who are going to raise her. It should be your final decisions that affect her upbringing. Tell her you'll gladly listen to her suggestions, but you and he will decide together what will or will not be done. If you make a wrong decision, you will learn by it. You are her mother, you have natural instincts. Maybe if you ask her opinion occasionally, she will cool down a bit. Just make her feel needed. She probably wants a child of her own and is using Tianna to achieve that feeling. If she can't have any more children, for whatever reason, she may be jealous. Try to hang in there for the next couple weeks, grit your teeth and see what happens when you move out. You might want to talk to your Dr. about something for stress. You really need your rest, too. You have a little girl to take care of. Good luck.
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