Last July my dtrs boyfriend of 2 1/2 years broke up with her for another girl he had met at his part time job. We never saw it coming and I would have never guessed he would do that to her as he seemed to love her so much. She was 19 and I knew it was all part of loving and growing up but it tore me up inside. He practically lived at our house. It took my dtr a week or so to really believe it and I was over at my FIL apt taking hin dinner and she called me and said Mom, can you come home I need you and was crying and she is pretty stoic usually. I came home and she was on my bed and i walked in and she started sobbing and we both cried and I just held her. Unfortunately, all we can do is be there when they need us. She says she is way over him now but his pics are all up still. So just give her hugs and time will heal and she will have plenty more before she finds Mr. Right. |