Thanks!!!!
i have no clue what to do, i did tell my husband that it all needed to be in a contract. because i just got a job at dmv, just little over a month ago. his company said they would pay me my salary from there to work for my husbnad as an assistant. at ca rates with his raise. but like i told my mom it might never pan out. we dont own a home we rent from the best landlady we have ever had. we would keep the house because we would want something to come back to. we shouldnt be in ca more than a few months but they did say something about colorado next?? any how my parents flipped because they dont want the grandbaby or me to go so far away (and of course my husband, they love him but are used to him being gone) i would love the experience but it also worrys me, supposedly we are to make a decision in 2 weeks, but i havent heard anything else about it since my husband first brought it up the other morning. it seems it was a midnight call made to my husband sunday night from the owner....i would really hate to lose my job at dmv but my husband makes a lot more then me and that is the sole income..this is going to be a hard decision. i think one reason this came up is because my husband was complaining to the owner that he hasnt seen me or our son more than 4 times a month in 7 months. he says he feels like a single dad with visitation. then when he is home i have to cram a weeks worth of stuff on him so that day will have a lot of up and downs. and it stresses us bot out, we would really like to spend some time together....ohhh but then im really close to my parents i would be lost with out them
i know im rambling on and off subjects..sorry if it doesnt make sense...i thinking about all of this with the worst case of hippcups ever!!!!!...lol |