Thank God your daughter is ok. She is beautiful, btw. I love that 2nd pic of her. What a wonderful surprise for you children. It must be so hard not to tell them. I would tell you you'll love it cause I was born there - Fort Bliss, El Paso, but we left when I was very young, so I don't remember any of it. But the pictures my parents gave me of there sure looked like it was alot of fun. Especially White Sands, NM. With a good therapist, she will be fine. I worked at a counseling center, and the right ones can work wonders. Good luck with all that is ahead of you and your family.