I am sooooo sorry this happened to you!! You must have been devastated!!

I have 2 sons and I can't think of the horror if one of them were in danger like you daughter! How is she now? Have you been able to receive counselling for her and your family? What a terrible ordeal!! I know that sometime places appeal to us. My husband has had an opportunity to work in Indonesia, but I have requested we don't make that move until the boys are in University.maybe later in your life, Korea may be the place for you!
Take care and wait till your Hubby comes home and you are all safe and sound! Then explore your options!