I have a video on tube feeding but just don't feel confident enough on it or else I'd do it. I tried every chance I could to get Tia to latch onto her mom. But with the cleft it makes it impossible for her to latch on. Her mom, Zoey, though accepted her. I think she knew I was helping and we formed a "team" I beleive. She knew it was my job to feed her, and her job was to clean her and keep her warm and help her potty. She was great about it.
I'm going to post a web site for you as well. Please read this, as it will help out alot as well. Also, we have a thread going currently with our experiences with our cleft babies. I'm still needing advise and help everyday! We have good days and bad days and its been 7 weeks. its worth it though!!!! She's currently sleeping out like a log on my lap right now. Weighing in at only 12 oz at 7 weeks. Skinny as heck.
Here is the website. VERY helpful !!!
http://members.tripod.com/hennwood/id88.htm
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE let me know if I can help!