All I can say is that the time you spend with your kids is about QUALITY not QUANTITY. I know what you mean about feeling smothered. Absence does make the heart grow fonder and it helps you appreciate your family more when you are able to be with them. Your kids probably just want attention because they're not used to what's going on. Just make sure you ask them how their day was and make sure they still get the attention they need. I think you all can be happy. Also, let the kids know how much you enjoy your job and talk to them about it. If there's any way they can visit you at work it would even be better. Lots of people work for reasons other than money. Feeling like you've accomplished something is a very rewarding experience and in my opinion better than sitting around at home missing the kids while they're at school anyways.
Good luck. |