I agree with everyone! It's bad enough that she has to go through the painful surgery and has to stay there for the day. I couldn't imagine her staying there all night too, without someone there to watch over her. How much better could it be there if she is alone. I definetly will not get ANY sleep b/c I will be up wondering if she is OK. I never leave her in her crate for more than 4 hours and I am sure she will be there all night without any time out of it, so I think if anything, that will cause her more pain than coming home the same day. I am just worried about what could happen if she does come home early...I would never forgive myself if something happened because i didn't leave her with them
! It looks like almost everyone got to take their babies home the same day, so I guess it would be the best thing to do.